LOOKING FOR LOVE
IN ALL THE RIGHT PLACES
Too many guys want sex. Is it possible to find a guy out there who will not have sex with you until your married?
–Looking For Love
It may not seem like it, but there are plenty of guys who share your values about sex. You just have to know where to look for them.
You know that testosterone-charged and booze-fueled baseball game after-party that everyone is going to? Skip it. Instead, think about where you can go in your community to meet people who share your values. There may be a church youth group filled with cute guys who also want to wait to have sex. A local volunteer or activism organization might also attract like-minded dudes.
Figure out where these places are in your community and get involved. Once you start surrounding yourself with like-minded folks, you’ll find that not every guy wants to have sex–many of them are also looking for love, just like you.
Erika Stalder is the author of The Date Book: A Girl’s Guide To Going Out With Someone New and creator of the DEAR ERIKA advice column for ABC Family’s Secret Life of The American Teenager.
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